"I firmly believe in small gestures: pay for their coffee, hold the door for strangers, over tip, smile or try to be kind even when you don’t feel like it, pay compliments, chase the kid’s runaway ball down the sidewalk and throw it back to him, try to be larger than you are— particularly when it’s difficult. People do notice, people appreciate. I appreciate it when it’s done to (for) me. Small gestures can be an effort, or actually go against our grain (“I’m not a big one for paying compliments…”), but the irony is that almost every time you make them, you feel better about yourself. For a moment life suddenly feels lighter, a bit more Gene Kelly dancing in the rain."
Speaking of dreams..today I knew some news. Dreaming of a certain person isn’t about thinking of them. It’s all about the qualities this person bears. That’s quite relieving.
Being too clingy to something does not necessarily mean interest. Maybe it’s throwing away our attention from something that needs to be avoided. A thought, an idea, a person,a fate that can not be escaped or a dream that needs to be forgotten.
"Your children are not your children. They are sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. They come through you but not from you. And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. […] You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you."
"Nothing is better than seeing your EX with someone uglier than you."